Sunday, September 19, 2010

“WE HUMANS AND OUR LIVES”

WE HUMANS THE MOST SELFISH OF ALL
Another major learning that I acquired is that we humans are very selfish and we can never think about others happiness because we are only bothered about our own personal happiness. I had fought with a friend of mine in my school days and with whom I stopped talking for almost a decade now. It is in the last summers that I took the initiative and spoke to her. She was surprised on receiving my call, but I was very polite to her and asked her to forget the grudges between us and insisted her on being friends again. I managed to be friends with her, but when I was thinking about, on what made me call her after such a long time, I realized that it was not my kind nature of forgiving some ones mistakes that made me call her instead it was my selfish needs of giving mental peace to myself that I got after sorting out the fight with my old friend. I did this because I wanted to be in a peaceful state of mind and get over that old tension that I had created in my mind and my life about the fight that I had with my old school friend. When this thought of mine was supported by my Business Ethics Sir that is when I realized that there is nothing wrong in me feeling so because I figured out that it is human nature on being self centred. So I guess it is high time we all realize that in this world all individual live only for one’s self.

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  2. it's ok abhi, it good at times to be selfish, otherwise pple might take undue advantage of us
    :-)....... & it's good in a way that u could 4give her at least now :-).......

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